I’m a wife, mom, Kansas girl, and a follower of Jesus. I’ve walked through deep grief and unthinkable loss—but by His grace, I’ve found purpose in my pain. Now I use my voice to share the hope of the Gospel and the beauty of a faith refined by fire.
MY TESTIMONY
Now I write and speak to help women find hope and healing and to live victoriously in Christ.
I’ve walked through the pain of adultery, divorce, and the stillbirth of my daughter. I’ve faced health challenges with my son—and my life shattered when a drunk driver took my dad’s life.
But even in the darkest moments, Jesus never left. He met me in the ashes and began writing a story of redemption, healing, and hope.
Jesus has carried me through the deepest valleys of loss and heartbreak.
ABOUT ME
MY STORY
These have come so that the proven genuineness of your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed.
-1 Peter 1:7 NIV
Life brings painful trials, but God uses them to refine us—not destroy us. This is where brokenness becomes beauty, pain finds purpose, and your story is redeemed for His glory.
Grief. Loss. Trauma.
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A Gospel-centered book written for grieving moms who have experienced miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant loss. With tender compassion and biblical truth, Ashley Opliger shares her personal story of loss and points hurting hearts to the hope of Heaven and the comfort of Christ.
Cradled in Hope:
Trusting Jesus To Heal Your Heart As He Holds Your Baby In Heaven
a BIBLICAL GUIDE TO GRIEF
After the holidays, many hearts ache in the stillness of winter. This one-day online retreat is designed to bring light...
Our Hearts Are Home Retreat
Virtual
Jan 31, 2026
This year’s retreat is themed “Beautifully Broken," inspired by the ancient Japanese art of Kintsugi—the practice of...
Hope Mommies Retreat
Giddings, TX
Feb 27 - Mar 1, 2026
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This women’s event at Central Christian Church focuses on the sacred practice of lament, as part of the Ordo Amoris...
Coffee + Connection
Wichita, KS
Jan 24, 2026
This women’s event at Central Christian Church focuses on the sacred practice of lament, as part of the Ordo Amoris yearly emphasis: learning to love what God loves, in the order He desires. Many women carry unspoken sorrow—whether from loss, disappointment, unanswered prayer, or the waiting seasons of life.
Ashley Opliger will be sharing from her personal story and offering biblical encouragement on how lament can reorder our hearts and anchor our hope in Christ. This event is for any woman who has felt the ache of a broken world.
Details:
• No cost to attend (RSVP encouraged; walk-ins welcome)
• Coffee and light refreshments provided
• T-shirts ($15) and Cradled in Hope books ($10) available (cash/check only)
Saturday, January 24, 2026 | 9:00–11:30 AM
Coffee + Connection
After the holidays, many hearts ache in the stillness of winter. This one-day online retreat is designed to bring light into that darkness, featuring three uplifting sessions (including one from Ashley Opliger) and interactive opportunities to share, reflect, and be encouraged from home. There is no cost to attend.
January 31, 2026 | 10 AM — 3:30 PM ET
Our Hearts Are Home Winter Retreat
Ashley Opliger will be the keynote speaker at this year’s retreat, themed “Beautifully Broken.” Inspired by the ancient Japanese art of Kintsugi—the practice of repairing broken pottery with gold—this theme reminds us that Jesus doesn’t hide our cracks; He restores them and makes us even more beautiful through His healing.
This special weekend brings together moms from across the country for worship, biblical encouragement, and heartfelt connection with others who understand the ache of losing a baby. It’s a sacred space where your grief is gently held and your story honored.
Retreat Details:
Registration cost will be announced soon and includes:
• A 2-night stay in a shared room
• Five catered meals, plus beverages and snacks
• Speaking and worship sessions
• Prayer room access, special activities, and meaningful gifts
February 27 – March 1, 2026 | Giddings, TX
Hope Mommies Retreat
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A Biblical Guide for Grieving Miscarriage, Stillbirth, and Infant Loss
Trusting Jesus to Heal Your Heart as He Holds Your Baby in Heaven
Cradled In Hope
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